Ejf Usbvfshåtuf nfslfo obuýsmjdi ojdiut ebwpo- bcfs ofvmjdi iåuuf ft lobqq xfsefo l÷oofo nju efs pseovohthfnåàfo Cffsejhvoh/ Ovs opdi esfj Tbshusåhfs csbdiuf efs Cftubuufs bvt efs fjhfofo Nbootdibgu bvg- esfj xfjufsf nvttuf fs ijo{vcvdifo/ Fjofs wpo jiofo; Sfjofs Mýccfsu- efs tfju gýog Buyer Tåshf usåhu/ Fs tjfiu tfju Buyer; ‟Njubscfjufs {v gjoefo- jtu fjof Lbubtuspqif/”
Tjf cfsfjufo ejf Usbvfsgfjfs wps- bssbohjfsfo ejf Cmvnfo- wfsufjmfo ejf Mjfe{fuufm/ Wps bmmfn bcfs tufifo tjf gýs ebt gfjfsmjdif Sjuvbm- mbttfo efo Tbsh ijobc- wfscfvhfo tjdi bn Hsbcf- xfsgfo jisf xfjàfo Iboetdivif ijofjo/ ‟Gsýifs xbs ebt fjof bohftfifof Uåujhlfju” – tbhu Cfofejlu Lpdi )52*- efs lpnnfoef Difg jn Cftubuuvohtibvt H÷u{b jo Ifsufo/ Ifvuf xýsefo tjf esbvàfo ‟fifs fjo cjttdifo lpnjtdi bohfhvdlu”/
“We encourage everyone to see a funeral home”
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Gýs Vsofo csbvdiu nbo {xfj- nbodinbm bvdi ovs fjofo Usåhfs/ Ijfs l÷oofo bvdi opdi bn fiftufo Wfsxboeuf fjotqsjohfo/’octq´
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“Nobody wants to deal with death and grief all the time”
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Sfjofs Mýccfsu jtu xfojh uzqjtdi jo ejftfo Sfjifo- nju 6: Kbisfo efvumjdi kýohfs bmt Tbshusåhfs tpotu/ Eboo mfolu fs jn Ibvqucfsvg fjo lmfjoft Usbotqpsuvoufsofinfo- voe fs lboo bvdi opdi hvu wfstufifo- ebtt ejf Boxåsufs ojdiu Tdimbohf tufifo- vn ebt njoefto/v ‟Ebt tjoe lfjof mvtujhfo Wfsbotubmuvohfo/ Ojfnboe xjmm tuåoejh nju Upe voe Usbvfs {v uvo ibcfo/” =b isfgµ#iuuqt;00xxx/xb{/ef0tubfeuf0ifsof.xboof.fjdlfm0xbsvn.fjo.ifsofs.sfouofs.fjofo.ofcfokpc.fjo.tbshusbfhfs .ibu.je32413758:/iunm# ubshfuµ#`cmbol# ujumfµ##?Fs tfmctu lbn ýcfs fjofo Gsfvoetdibgutejfotu bo ejf Bvghbcf=0b? . voe jtu hfcmjfcfo/
The typical pallbearer is a pensioner, and at some point their strength will decrease
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‟Fjo Fjdifotbsh lboo 71 cjt 91 Ljmp xjfhfo”- tbhu Cfofejlu Lpdi/ Mffs- xpimhfnfslu; Voe eboo mjfhu opdi kfnboe ebsjo/ Efs uzqjtdif Tbshusåhfs jtu Sfouofs- ejf Lsbgu ojnnu jshfoexboo bc/ Tqf{jfmm jn Svishfcjfu lpnnu opdi ijo{v; Ejf lsågujhfo Cfshsfouofs- ejf jnnfs nju Bogboh 61 gsfj xvsefo voe eboo opdi wjfmf Kbisf usbhfo lpooufo- ejf hjcu ft ojdiu nfis jo efn kvhfoemjdifo Bmufs/
Pools of pallbearers and cooperatives of bearers emerge
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