Has it happened to you that when you get on the bus or go to a specific place you see someone you like and you usually repeat your stay in those places, just to see her?
With the rise of technology and especially social networks, this first ‘like’ for someone already has a name.
It is about the concept of ‘Delusionship’, name that has been given on TikTok to that first feeling that you feel when someone catches your eye.
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According to these creators, the ‘Delusionship’ has the result that it has has positive results in those who experience it.
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The sensations of illusion that can be obtained in a ‘delusionship’ are beneficial to health.
– Do you fantasize a lot about someone even if you are not together?
– Did you start with calls or messages recently?
– Have you imagined a life with someone, even if you haven’t had a single date yet?
– Have you closed yourself off from possible dates because you are so focused on a single new person, whose full name you still don’t even know?
If you answered yes to most of these questions, the answer is that you are probably involved in a delusionship.
Regarding the positive or negative effects of this type of affective ‘relationship’, Dr. Caroline West says that they are not specifically bad: “It’s okay to daydream about potential people and relationshipsBeing self-confident and recognizing the value you could bring to a romantic relationship is all very well, however, although it can be very easy to get carried away by idealizing a relationship or interactions with another person,” she said.
“When my mom asks me why I’m so sad, but I can’t tell her it’s because my delusionship that I spoke to twice has ghosted me, stopped me from writing.” She voiced another user named Jaden.
