Answering inappropriate questions-proiezionidiborsa.it
Admit it, you too have had to deal with unwelcome topics during family lunches or dinners with intrusive friends. There are people who more or less consciously enter our private sphere, violating it.
Let’s see together how to free ourselves from these situations without embarrassments and, above all, by laying the foundations so that they do not arise again. There freedom personal ends where that of others begins. This is why no one should make inferences or ask for explanations in relation to some sensitive areas. If it happens, from now on you will know what to do.
How to answer inappropriate questions without showing discomfort or embarrassment
Let’s start by distinguishing on the basis of the interlocutor and the situation. It is obvious that, if theinterlocutor is a person with whom you have close confidence, the margin of tolerance must be greater. If questions are being asked by parents, uncles, grandparents, or cousins, you should allow more than your own private. That doesn’t mean they have to overdo it. The difference in your answers and yours availability it will also come from the perception you will have. In fact, it happens that seemingly trivial questions are asked with a look particularly inquisitive or critical.
The classic questions such as “when are you getting married” or “when do you decide to expand the family” have no sense in any case. The questioner hasn’t heard from you about these topics, which should indicate that you don’t want to talk about them. But there are those who dare to ask the question, perhaps in front of everyone. On a possible intention to marry you could also make us one laugh on, of course if your partner laughs with you. It is essential that the couple has already talked about the topic and knows how to deal with others. If this hasn’t happened, it’s always best to respond with a diplomatic “You’ll be among the first to know when we decide.” In this way the morbid curiosity should be extinguished and should not be created misunderstandings with your sweetheart.
Children, study, work and home purchases are the most sensitive topics
As for the arrival of offspring, no one should comment unless those directly involved bring up the matter. The practice is unfortunately different. You find yourself being pelted by jokes ambiguous, insensitive words or direct and impudent questions. But this is a very delicate key. If the couple hasn’t spoken about their intentions, they might not want to share the thought. But don’t let yourself be caught unprepared. If you have decided not to have any say it openly, without feeling compelled to explain i reasons.
Surely you will be the subject of glances and phrases that tend to instill bigoted guilt feelings. Ignore these reactions, only you two know the reason for this decision. If you have difficulty to conceive and maybe you’re facing a path to seek motherhood and fatherhood, don’t let others get into all of this. Simply reply that you are thinking about it and stare intently into your partner’s eyes.
When you are taken in counterattack you don’t know how to answer inappropriate questions, so you don’t have to be caught unprepared for the topics that are most sensitive to you. Study and work are often brought up, especially to get things done compare unwelcome. The best answers in these cases are: “each person has their own path and opportunities” or “I’m doing my best to…”.
