Yes with phrases like “I congratulate you, how well you act” Y ‘Monotony’ Shakira’s songs caused a stir, with her ‘Session 53′ (Sessions #53) there is ‘viral earthquake’. The replicas and memes in the world do not stop because of the “dart phrases” of the Colombian singer towards “her ex of hers”, Gerard Piqué, in the midst of a scandalous separation. His new partner, Clara Chía, was not spared either.
What’s in the background of that song with DJ Bizarrap? Is Shakira over the pain of a separation and is it just about ‘billing’? Trome talked about this and more with the clinical psychologist Juliana Sequera.
“Phrases like ‘You forgot what one day we were’, ‘It wasn’t your fault, nor mine’ (part of the song Monotony Shakira) reflect emotional intelligence to say things, such as claim And Release, but in the new song there is a lot of pain, anger, frustration, comparisons. They are part of the duel and it is normal to feel it, it must be expressed, but in a psychotherapeutic context. The way to heal is not by destroying the other”clinical psychologist Juliana Sequera told Trone.
He explained that in phrases like ‘So much that you give it to yourself as a champion’, ‘A wolf like me is not for guys like you’, ‘I was big for you’ there are marked power war and intention to show ‘I can live without you’. and when saying ‘women don’t cry anymore, women bill’highlights it.
“Remember that crying is part of the process, not to stay in tears but to free the soul and move forward”, Sequera clarified.
Psychologist Juliana Sequera explains about betrayal, mourning, power war, the ‘ex’ and how to ‘turn the page’. (Interview; Isabel Medina / Trome)
The lyrics of Shakira’s new song use pun with pauses What: ‘I only make music, sorry that you get salty – pique’ (by Piqué) and ‘has the name of a good person, clear – mind’ (alluding to Clara, a new couple) it’s not how it sounds.
It also includes comparisons like ‘You traded a Ferrari for a Twingo’, ‘‘You traded a Rolex for a Casio’.
Gerard Piqué and his new partner Clara Chía. (Photo: Twitter)
“In moments of betrayal, self-esteem is affected, but the value belongs to oneself, with its qualities, without comparing oneself. It is unnecessary to invalidate another to show your worth”, Sequera emphasized.
The psychologist Sequera also indicated that in the separation it is very important that both members who were a couple acknowledge that they loved each otherthat they gave their best and that each one assume their responsibilities that the relationship no longer works.
“To overcome the loving duel and be able to ‘turn the page’, it is necessary to reach the stage of acceptance. Who hurts does not win but who forgives to have emotional peace”, assured.
Shakira’s new song, psychologist Juliana Sequera explains about betrayal, mourning, power war, the ‘ex’ and how to ‘turn the page’. (Interview; Isabel Medina / Trome)
Sequera remarked that Shakira and Piqué are not only seen as figures, she is a singer and he is a soccer player, but that they were married for several years and have children who also experience how this painful separation is taking place.
“Both of you need to be more careful in how you communicate. We don’t know what was going on between them as a couple, but Father’s love should not be questioned for a betrayal of mother or vice versa”he claimed.
- For healthy divorce: Accept the situation, think calmly and never speak ill of your father/mother’s children. It is also necessary to go to therapy to heal the pain.
- To speak ill of your ‘ex’ is to speak ill of yourself: For something one chose that person as a partner and the end does not erase the good that was.
Psychologist explains about betrayal, mourning, power war, the ‘ex’ and how to ‘turn the page’. (Interview; Isabel Medina / Trome)
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