It was a learning curve. I had many lessons in that whole experience. Society, perhaps, It teaches us to hide our feelings from our children. But I think it’s a mistake, because they know more and perceive things in different ways and can tell when an adult is lying to them.. With these words, Shakira has hinted between the lines in an interview with the magazine Alo That your children, Milan and Sasha know more about her separation with former Barcelona footballer Gerard Piqué than one might expect..
And thus he justifies having spoken with them about what happened. If they want the truth and you don’t give it to them, then they make up their own version and their interpretations can be completely wrong and confusing. And that’s when things get complicated for them. But if you are brave enough to talk about things and open a conversation, where they can also give their opinion, everything changes.
In the two little ones he has also found great support to return strongly to music: Every time I had to go to the studio to work, I felt like I was leaving my family unattended. So there were times when I didn’t really enjoy it. I felt guilty, torn, but now it’s totally different. On the one hand, It is more difficult because now I am in charge of these two children, two babies who depend on me for being a single mother and not having a husband at home to help with anything.. But in a way, It’s lucky not to have a husband because, I don’t know why, I was dragging myself down Now I feel like working, I feel like writing songs, making music.
The lesson learned
For Shakira, although this process has been very painful, there is also something good: the learning she has learned from all of it. It is probably the most valuable lesson I have learned. It is better to trust than never to have trusted. It is better to trust and be betrayed than to never trust. Because, as I try to teach my children, There are many more good people in this world and it is worth daring, it is worth loving. Love is the most incredible experience a human can experience and no one should take that possibility away from you. I think there are many good people, No matter what shitty experiences you go through in life, there is always so much more to look forward to..
Only robots do not experience pain. However, pain makes you more human. And the artistic experience of being able to take that pain and transform it into something else, that is an opportunity and a luxury that we artists have. When I compose music, it’s like going to the psychiatrist, only cheaperade.
A therapy that he acknowledges that one of his children, the eldest, also used after his parents broke up: Milan wrote two beautiful songs during the entire separation process. They will simply make anyone cry. I wrote two songs with piano and lyrics. Whenever he feels a little down, he goes to the piano and writes music. And that is also his catharsis, his therapy.
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