Many times we say that when a person only thinks about himself and does not care about the feelings of others, he is a selfish. However, there are situations in which it is valid to think of oneself, and not for selfishnessbut because you feel that you need time for yourself.
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The following are moments when it is allowed to think about you and only you:
* After a tiring day of work. When you get home you are not for anyone. Go into your room, take a bath and relax. Then, with a better face, you can meet the family.
* When you pursue a goal. No one should stop you in that and you need to be focused or focused. You can listen to opinions, but you cannot deviate from your goal.
* When you give your all and they don’t consider it. Faced with these clashes, the logical thing to do is to ‘open up’ and think that one is better than that.
Just as we care about others, we must pay attention to what our interior demands. Photo: Stock.
* You have received mistreatment from others. It is a good time to show yourself that you love yourself because you are worth a lot, and if they treat you badly, the problem is not yours.
* You tend to please people. You go out of your way trying to make others happy and you forget what you like, what you want and long for. It’s time to think about you.
* When they disappoint you or were unfair to you. Injustices abound and the people we thought were our friends suddenly let us down. Then there is nothing better than concentrating on what one is.
* When you’re surrounded by toxic people. Sometimes it is unavoidable, but what you can do is reduce contact with these types of people, set limits and protect yourself.
Did you know…
Scholars indicate that there is a type of selfishness, which is called ‘healthy egoism’. It has to do with the energy that the person dedicates to taking care of themselves.
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