many parents In their eagerness to take care of their children and give them everything they need, they fall into the child overprotection without imagining that this can negatively affect the good Emotional development of the boys, even making them useless because they can’t do anything on their own, they always need mom or dad to decide for them and even support them.
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“The problem that arises here is the intolerance of failure. Therefore, parents should encourage autonomy in their children. I eat? Giving them responsibilities from a very young age, they can put away their toys, make their bed, put on their clothes by themselves, tie their hair clips. It all depends on how old they are. This way they will get used to being independent and will take that learning to their other stages of life ”, he pointed Manuel Saravia, psychologist and psychotherapist at the Guestalt Institute in Lima.
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In addition, it is important to promote tolerance to frustration and the feeling of overcoming; otherwise they won’t want to do anything, much less face their problems. “If something happens, they will evade responsibility and ultimately blame others. For this reason, parents should talk to their children and tell them that all the actions they take will have consequences and that things will not always turn out the way they want.indicated the specialist.
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The overprotected child believes he is special, entitled to everything and sometimes better than others, which deep down hides a low self-esteem.
Did you know that playing with dolls develops empathy in children?
see a kid playing with dolls or a girl having fun with balls football it is absolutely normal because toys have no gender. And contrary to what is believed, the simple fact that your child spends entertaining moments playing the family yes it will bring you a lot benefits to your adult life.
“Toys are made to awaken children’s creativity. Especially dolls or stuffed animals because they are affective toys, then it also helps them to be more sensitive, empathic with others, awakens their protective side. In the future, they will be more conscious and responsible parents”, says the psychologist Juliana Sequera.
If you have young children and are going through something similar, the specialist recommends following these tips:
Don’t judge him, let alone start treating him differently. Toys are gender-neutral and indicative of sexual orientation. This is false! Let him be free and play as many times as he wants.
If you see that your child is worried about the care of babies (dolls), take advantage of and work on values, such as the responsibility of being a good father or older brother. Get the juice out of this situation.
This kind of games they encourage their creativity and empathy with each other. They are children, do not put labels on them!
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