Sometimes it’s good to go back to basics, especially when you’re trying to breaking barriers. Perhaps the monotony and the infinity of responsibility that one has on a day-to-day basis, at work and at home have made sexual relations take a backseat. But, what is missing to re-ignite the flame of passion and resume sexual life as a couple?
Sex therapist Chris Kadesh, an expert in using sexual energy, comments that sexual barriers occur frequently in couples. There are people who have just started a relationship and have a hard time going to bed. In the same way, it happens with those who have been boyfriends or husbands for years, where sex is almost non-existent.
HOW TO BREAK SEXUAL BARRIERS IN A PARTNER
Masturbation:
Masturbation allows you to explore and get to know your body better. In addition, it helps to connect with your partner. Photo: Pexels.
It is not always possible for the two people in a relationship to have the same sexual desire. Sometimes the libidos are incompatible and make the person feel sexually frustrated, forced to please the partner when in fact it does not provoke him.
Feeling comfortable enough to masturbate in front of your partner is a great solution, so you can let go of sexual frustration; while you know your partner is okay with this. Actually experimenting with masturbation can encourage your partner to participate as well.
bed talk
Talking in bed with your partner allows you to break those ice blocks that block any connection. It is important to know what things your partner likes so that you both enjoy it to the fullest. Photo: Pexels.
Talking about your emotions in bed can seem like a bit of a passion kill, but believe it or not, having conversations in bed can help you spice up your sex life. Communication is key to great sex, and a conversation before intercourse plus snuggling under the sacks is a great way to open up to each other, strengthening your connection.
Chatting in bed helps create a relaxing vibe and is a great opportunity to express your likes and dislikes, in and out of the bedroom.
Increased intimacy and understanding always leads to better sex, as you feel more comfortable with your partner.
easy sex positions
If you think that to surprise your partner you have to know one and a thousand poses to have good sex, you are wrong, because with a simple one both of you could enjoy it to the fullest. Photo: Pexels
Although experimenting with different sexual positions can be very funny, sometimes the simplest ones achieve the best results. Who wants to stand against the wall when you can be more comfortable in your own bed?
Simple sex positions like missionary usually involve more kissing and intimacy, and you’re already in bed so you can cuddle up afterwards. Some of the easy sex positions involve face-to-face, sitting, on top, and from behind.
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