Little or nothing is said about how old people live love. And if we do, there are a lot of prejudices around. Not only from society, but also from the family. It is mistakenly believed that after the age of 60 they lose the right to love (and feel loved) and the one to give second Chances. Do only young people enjoy the privilege of falling in love?
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“Older adults must record in their heads that they should not be afraid of love. Say goodbye to prejudice and live in freedom. If you are really sure of giving yourself a new opportunity, don’t look back and play it.” says psychologist Luis Romero (find him on Instagram as @psicologo.luisromero)
The specialist adds that at that age love is experienced differently. There is more camaraderie, conceit, gestures of affection, tenderness and complicity. In addition, the advantage that older adults have over young people is that they do take the prudent time to get to know the other person and be sure of their feelings.
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“Another important and controversial point is that they enjoy their intimate life differently. There are also caresses, eroticism, the famous ‘getaways’. And what should never be lacking is communication, especially if you are about to start a relationship. Disagreements on this issue are the perfect excuse for infidels”, adds Romero.
If you are going through something similar, the specialist advises leaving behind the gossip, what they will say and betting on the new relationship. Yes indeed, Keeping your eyes wide open and stepping on the ground. Take advantage of this second loving opportunity that life is giving you. Enjoy!
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Generally, couples who have lived healthy relationships are more open to giving themselves second chances. They are better prepared and it is easy for them to break taboos. While women who did not have a good time during their first engagement are more difficult to give themselves a new chance in love.
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