They say that love is like a cough, because you can’t hide it. With lack of love something similar happens. There are signs of falling out of love that are very noticeable and no matter how much you want to hide, you cannot. There are many factors that may have ended love. It could have been the monotony, the lack of attention towards the couple, the excess of work that did not allow them to spend more time together, etc. How do we know if we have already lost the charm?
The psychologist Luisa Gomez He comments that the process of falling out of love is not sudden but a gradual process in which a cluster of internal sensations is produced that finally lead to the death of the feeling of love.
The lack of love is a clear contrast with the initial illusion of the story when the image that the lovers have of the other is idyllic and perfect.
When the bitter taste of disappointment due to falling out of love is experienced, the virtues are reduced and the defects increase. The other person remains exactly the same. what has changed then? The inner world of the lover and his way of observing the other.
What are the signs that I am no longer in love?
The signs of falling out of love have to do with a loss of vitality in the relationship. This manifests itself in many ways, ranging from communication barriers to an obvious lack of interest in the other.
How do I know if I’m not in love anymore?
-Intolerance of the couple’s irrelevant mistakes.
-Wearing of communication, being able to appear recriminations, offenses and conflicts.
-Avoid bodily contact with the partner.
-Exchanging the pleasant memories of the couple for negative experiences.
-Absence of acts of affection, praise and gifts.
-Loss of joy that the arrival of the couple meant.
-Neglect of the spiritual, sexual, economic, domestic or physical needs of the other person.
-Sexual rejection that is expressed in the lack of initiative.
-The time to share with the couple is avoided.
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