If a man asks you to be his girlfriend and you don’t know how to turn him down because he’s a good person, you see him only as friend or you don’t want to hurt him, we give you seven suggestions so that you can say no without hurting him.
LOOK: Why is it difficult for men to say NO to sex?
“I’m not looking for a relationship at the moment” usually works, just like a “I like someone else.”
A third way out is to tell him: “I just want to be your friend”. Although he may be upset at first, perhaps he will soon resign himself and they will actually remain as friends.
“I don’t want to ruin our friendship” It is another output that despite being common does not stop working. You can even tell him that you love him so much as a friend that you don’t want to spoil the friendship, because when couples break up you think that all positive feelings are over.
It is better to say it directly and talk about your feelings. Photo: Stock.
“I have a boyfriend” Y “I just got out of a very bad relationship” They are two good excuses, although they only work if your suitor does not know you very well and does not know about your life.
The last suggestion is to tell them what you would like to be told if you were in their shoes. It doesn’t always work, but you can try.
IT MAY INTEREST YOU:
